Once you became a mother, you made our mother your maid due to her unconditional love for us and her grandchild.
That very day you made my mother stay the night with you along with your husband. I wanted her to come home in the morning but your husband directly told my aunt to look after me. What kind of attitude was that? Not once you asked if it was fine with her, you just commanded. You can request not order someone. My poor mother who wanted to come home in the morning for me couldn’t cause your husband went missing in the middle of the night without informing anyone. My mother had to search him. From that very day, all you gave her was tension although she didn’t complain ever.
Your mother in law was supposed to stay but didn’t as her daughter had come. But my mother came every day and sat next to you in the hospital when you’re husband’s family didn’t even care once about you.
Whatever you needed, you ordered her to get it for you and she did it out of love. Whenever I tried stopping her, she always told me she’s my daughter after all but you took undue advantage of this fact.
The day of the christening you told her to dress well for the evening. Like what do you think of yourself? In the evening, you wanted to enjoy the party and just left your baby with her.
The following month you came home and began demanding for a variety of foodstuff stating that you’d get everything in your husband’s house. My mother tried her level best to give you everything she could but in return, you told her only that my child is crying so bitterly and if anything happens to her, I would have to take her to the doctor because no one would come. How could you? Every single time my mother stood by you. And you just left the house.
For more than 3 months you didn’t step back. No matter what you said, my mother still came to see her grandchild. Then you came up with the idea of keeping my mother with you. Thought of making her stay in the guest room so that she could be your maid and look after your kid. What kind of a mother are you, you can’t even take care of your own child?
Did you think my mother doesn’t have a home and a family? It was very clear that she wasn’t leaving her home and going to live in you’re husband’s house.
You asked her to make some quilts for your child, she did that too, despite the fact that she wasn’t even well. You just named a thing and she did it for you. In spite of that, you couldn’t respect her. All you tried doing is put her down in every way.
Now suddenly you thought of working so you came to her again. You wanted her to come with you, all the way to town for your meeting not once but twice. You also asked if she could take care of your kid once you start working. How much more shameless can you be? She’s still ready to do that for you.
On your birthday, again you indirectly tired to put her down by showing off your new phone which your husband gifted you. What kind of a daughter are you? Can’t you see what all you’re mother is doing for you without saying a word to you? Can’t you see the love and care she has for you? Or are you just closing your eyes and using her? Just because she would do anything and everything for you.
You always told me to respect my parents as they are God’s gift to us. Today, all you do is disrespecting her every single time. I know this is not what my mother taught you but I don’t know from where you’ve learned this. I hope you realize this as long as she’s here with us and rectify it. Else it’ll be too late and then you’ll not be able to do anything but regret. I wish you realize this soon.
She always says my God is watching what I am doing and he will take care of everything. My mother will keep doing good and I hope you learn this from her.
Guys please respect your mother and love her, that’s all she’ll ever want in return of everything she’s ever done for you. Thanks to my ungrateful sister, I’ve realized how I should not treat my mother. I hope you all realize it, too.